Make Self Doubt A Relic of Your Past

Ever wonder why self-doubt affects some more than others?

Just for a moment, imagine you:

• Stopped second guessing yourself

• Rarely hesitated

• Rarely let the opinions and thoughts sway you 

• Had certainty in the face of uncertainty

• Deeply trusted your intuition

• Eliminated overthinking & analysis paralysis for good …

Welcome to convicted confidence, optimism and positivity as your new baseline state.

This is a new constant reality for my clients.

So let’s dive into what you need to know to reprogram self doubt, so you can realize your fullest potential today.

To preface, we all experience doubt 

This is something I have observed working with high performers & even millionaires. Even the ones that have scaled to 9 figures! It’s not just about the money or success, it goes much deeper (as you know it always does with me).

Self doubt is present, especially when pursuing audacious goals, which is entirely natural because you're venturing into uncharted territory

In english: it's normal. 

However, the key differentiator lies in managing and performing in the face of doubt. It determines whether you'll join the ranks of the ultra-successful or remain tethered to unrealized potential.

To address self-doubt effectively, it’s important to understand that self-doubt originates from childhood.

In your formative years, you learn that by:

• Being perfect

• Being a good child

• Getting good grades 

• Being popular

• Winning Gold 

That you were seen and celebrated. 

You learn your achievements award you 

• Love

• Support

• Recognition

But when you make mistakes and fail. 

You were met with criticism, anger, learning how to feel fearful, embarrassed, guilty etc

In response, you began repressing these genuine parts of yourself to avoid the pain associated with failure and rejection.

You learn very quickly, building a strong association with pain & consequence, not even aware of the decision you just made (aka the program you just chose). 

You learn it's not safe to be you. *insert existential crisis* You learn that something must be wrong with you.

Similarly to conditioning (think Pavlov’s dogs), this leads you to believe that you must conform to what brings positive reinforcement.

You learn to equate self-worth with achievement and performance, setting the stage for a perpetual cycle of seeking external validation.

Always looking to others, checking in to see if you got the gold star, being noticed, appreciated and celebrated… and you don’t get this constantly, you start to doubt yourself…

This is the root cause of your incessant need for external validation.

Concurrently, you began losing trust in yourself because it's not truly safe "to be you".

Because when you trusted yourself and were hit with failure or rejection, it resulted in pain and consequences.

This is where self-doubt gets forged, as you start to grapple with the challenge of self-validation for the rest of your life.

The fear of uncertainty, struggling with failure and rejection, and self-criticism (being extremely hard on yourself) become deeply ingrained.

Thus, feelings of insecurity, anxiety, being overwhelmed, resentment and perpetual worrying thrive.

Overthinking and analysis paralysis become the norm, and a pervasive sense of unworthiness takes hold.

All these subconscious behaviors serve to cement the limiting beliefs you've constructed in childhood:

• "I am not good enough" (It won't be me).

• "I am not capable" (What if it doesn't work?).

• "I am unworthy" (I am not special).

• "I am misunderstood" (I am an outlier).

These beliefs amplify the magnitude of fear and failure

That is why it can feel like the end of the world when you fail.

Deep down you fear:

• Looking like a loser to your family, they all knew you would fail 

• Feeling embarrassed that you aren’t where you “should be” with your success

• The thought of losing it all

• That you will look stupid, a failure...

Which in adulthood, causes you to hesitate on big decisions that could change the trajectory of your life (towards everything you desire). Often you lack powerful execution in ways that would break you into a new level of life.

The classic case of: you know what to do but you aren’t doing it.

* MILLION DOLLAR MINDSET TOOL *  

This is a tool I use with clients in session

1. Take inventory of what massive moves are you procrastinating on
2. Ask yourself the question, "what stops you now?"
3. List all the "reasons" out 
4. Boom, say hello to all your current mindset blocks & limiting beliefs 

Usually it is you stopping yourself based on some imposted limiting belief, that IS NOT EVEN REAL. But it stops you from ever taking action. 

Back to what I was saying …

You hold yourself back because you are looking for confirmation from outside sources that it’s safe to move forward

But where you are going, you haven’t yet achieved.

Consequently, you remain trapped in a never-ending mental loop, futilely searching for evidence that doesn't exist yet, further confirming your old identity, and this, sadly, is the reason why the majority of the population remains mired in mediocrity.

I've witnessed these subconscious barriers cost my clients millions of dollars in missed opportunities.

So how do you stop this deeply engrained pattern of sabotage?

The solution lies in reprogramming this precise block by boosting your self-worth.

When your self-worth gets boosted, your life does a 180

The grip of uncertainty, failure, and rejection loosens, so you take bigger calculated risks towards massive success.

Your unwavering self-belief and trust in yourself become so formidable that they transcend circumstances, making you impervious to external influences, not much can sway you.

You cease seeking external validation and instead tap into your internal reservoir of strength. This is the path to achieving the extraordinary (and real happiness).

Your ability to stop looking outward and trust yourself again. 

This puts you back in control and complete ownership of the future only you can create (aka you stop getting your in your own way)

My clients partner with me to utilize the POWER OF HYPNOSIS, so they can continually evolve their mindset, consciousness, and execution, breaking free from the confines of old validation paradigms that limit their potential.

Ready to reprogram your mind?

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