Want an extra $25000?

My client almost lost out on an extra $25000 because of his scarcity mindset.

Here is why, what not to do and what you need to do instead.⁠

When you are stressing about money, you feel like a ball of anxiety. ⁠

Big numbers.

The bank accounts.

Next level deals & negotiations with big players.

Even though, it’s what you want…for some reason, the anxious AF feelings, sends you into a spiral, like the world is ending.

So what gives?

So here are 2 parts to SCARCITY that you need to understand for sustainable success:

#1: IT’S GOING TO RUN OUT

One part of you worries that you will run out. ⁠

We hear this growing up:

💰️ money doesn't grow on trees⁠

💰️ don't be irresponsible ⁠

💰️ be careful with money ⁠

💰️ we can't afford this ⁠

So you program your mind that money is a limited resource. ⁠That it's hard to come by or making mistakes with it is the end of the world.

I literally have millionaire clients anxious about big decisions with money, saying they "can't afford it", which literally makes no logical sense because they can.

But the subconscious is SCREAMING DANGER!

It's just fear clouding their judgement. ⁠For this particular client, it was their father’s voice activating their money trauma. It’s not actually happening but it impacts the way they think and ultimately make decisions with money.

#2 - LOSING OUT

While on the other side, you worry you will lose out. That the opportunity will disappear because you will "mess up" and "lose it all". ⁠

This causes you to be so in your head, operating in fear mode…

I have seen clients engage in self sabotaging patterns in the following ways that impact your bottom line: ⁠⁠

💎 avoid hiring⁠

💎 struggling to invest in your expansion

💎 jeopardize negotiations ⁠

💎 avoid price increases ⁠

💎 struggle to raise capital ⁠in fear you can’t deliver

Back to the story..⁠

Here is how self sabotage appeared for him:

Impulsive Behaviour

• Highly reactive since his trauma made him feel like he was going to be taken advantage of

• This led to feelings of anger, frustration which caused him to lose focus on negotiating on what mattered. His focus was in the wrong place - on getting the upper hand, squeezing the other party out which was truthfully unproductive and a waste of energy & time.

• Listen, you may think this is the way to win but trust me, I have seen people lose hundreds of thousands, even millions due to their lack of emotional intelligence because their subconscious patterns running the show. Don’t let your emotions run (aka ruin) you.

Lack of Negotiation

• Scarcity: afraid to lose the deal

• Self worth: confidence was taking a hit as since he was not as successful not experience

Thus he was willing to accept less than necessary..

"Take what he could get”

Without EQ, you are blind. 

Thankfully, with deep subconscious work with reversing the patterns, he quickly and rapidly regained control.

Aka not letting his past trauma run the show.

To make a new consicous, calm, data driven choice, not dictated by his emotions stemming from his subconscious patterns.

And landed extra $25000 + other aspects of the negotiation that were absolutely game changers for his career.

This all came one to one decision. One choice. ⁠

That he almost didn't make. 

Money (subconscious) stress will cloud your judgement.

Your emotions high and often not in favour of the best decision to win more revenue. ⁠⁠

If you are ready to stop scarcity loops from holding you back, join my clients who have won thousands even millions of new revenue all from shifting their mindset. ⁠⁠

Free strategy call to find the exact blocks standing in your way of your next level.⁠ Unlock your next level HERE.

As always, a quote for you to ponder:

Kyra x